Yesterday I had a sweet friend come over and visit with her three girls, as we were both without our husbands for the day. While we sat in the kitchen having lunch together - all 7 of us - my friend's 2 year old coughed a little choking cough. At first I thought it was just a little choke - like we all have from time to time, when something just "goes down the wrong pipe." But then, very quickly, it got more serious. I looked up from feeding my son when I heard the cough, and my friend stepped over to her daughter. "Are you OK?" she asked, but her daughter could not answer. She was seriously choking. A peachy-gummy-O treat had gotten lodged in her throat. At once, my friend had the reaction to just stick her hand in her daughter's mouth and try to fish out the offending food. The little girl inhaled sharply, and then her breath absolutely stopped. I snapped, "Get it out!" as I stood to walk (dash) around the table to her aide. My friend looked up and began to panic. "Can you HELP me?!!" The food was breaking off in bits in my friend's fingers with each attempt to get it out. Honestly, this was all happening so quickly. I wasn't two steps from my chair when the little girl's face went from red, to purple, and was beginning to turn blue. I didn't know whether to take the two additional steps over to my friend, or the two additional steps to the phone to dial 911. I was rewinding in my mind, all the way back to high school, when I took an abbreviated CPR course. I decided I would pick the child up with my fist under her ribcage and give her a good bounce and a smack to her back as I headed back to the phone to dial the paramedics. When I got to her chair, I just grabbed her head, as my friend still had her hand in her daughter's mouth. In one last attempt, I held her jaw wide open, my friend grabbed the food and pulled, and it came out. The child's color returned in a flash, and she was up and around like nothing had happened. All this was less than 15 seconds, but it will be burned in my mind for the rest of my life! I need a CPR refresher course - it was taking me too long to make decisions and remember the proper steps. We were seconds away from a nightmare yesterday, but by the Grace of God we averted disaster. I will say that that gummy was broken in the middle, sticking together by less than a thread. Had it broken on the way out of that sweet child's throat, no finger could have dislodged it. We would have been doing the Heimlich and dialing 911.
In recounting the events to my husband, he reminded me that we should have done the Heimlich FIRST, and then tried to dislodge the food if other methods did not work. Anyway, all this is to say, go take a CPR course or refresher. Choking is silent and swift.
Grateful Hearts
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